Try love and then choose it. If you wish to make a man your enemy, tell them simply, “You are wrong.” Dont waste your time trying to convince someone that they are wrong or that they need to change their point of view. Instead recognize early that they are unwilling to change. Then the most useful thing you can do is adopt their point of view. Start walking the narrow path. It’s a little more lonely. You might not find anybody on it but sometimes you will find Christ. Thats what I call good company. When he speaks, i listen and when he writes, i read. Interruptus horribilis Do not seek revenge or bear a grudge against children but love your neighbor as yourself. Leviticus 19:18